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Table of Contents

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Introduction: Why Should I Read This Book? – xv

A: Attitudes and Approaches: What Choices Do I Have? – 1

B: Be Different: But Everybody Else Is Doing It – 7

C: Chastity: What Does It Have to Do With Me? – 12

D: Discovering the Unavoidable Consequences of Sex: What Could Really Go Wrong? – 19

E: Experiencing Real Love: Isn’t Sex the Natural Expression of Love? – 27

F: Freedom: Nobody Is Going to Tell Me What to Do – 33

G: Great Sex: But I Want Sex to Be Passionate and Exciting – 40

H: Having It Your Way: Can’t I Define the Meaning of Sex? – 47

I: If Not Sex, What Can I Do? How Far Is Too Far? – 54

J: Just My Thoughts: Why Do They Matter? – 62

K: Killing It Slowly: Can’t We Just Use Contraception? – 66

L: Laying Aside a Myth: Doesn’t Chastity Lead to Repression? – 74

M: Making a Distinction (Between Homosexual Orientation and Behavior): I Can’t Help It; It’s Just How I Am – 80

N: Nobody But Me: What’s the Big Deal With Masturbation? – 87

O: Oral Sex: Is It Really Sex? – 92

P: Pornography: How Does Looking at Pictures Hurt Anyone? – 96

Q: Questioning the Church: What Do Celibate Men Know About Sex Anyway? – 100

R: Respect That Builds Self-Esteem: But I Like Attention – 106

S: Starting Over: What If I’ve Already Lost My Virginity? – 112

T: Trying to Undo the Past: How Can I Move Beyond the Memories? – 117

U: Under One Roof: What’s Wrong With Cohabitation? – 123

V: Vocation of Marriage: With So Much Divorce, Is It Really Worth Waiting? – 128

W: What to Do: Chastity Sounds Nice, But Is It Practical and Realistic? – 133

X: XX: How Can Women Live Chastely? – 138

Y: YX: How Can Men Live Chastely? – 144

Z: Zero Regrets: The Decision Is Yours – 152

Appendix A: Where Else Can I Turn? – 157

Appendix B: What Can I Do to Have Fun and Show Affection Without Having Sex? – 165

Notes – 169

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