Spirituality Tag

I have low self esteem from past comments made to me. I try not to let them bug me but I can’t help it. Do you have any advice?

Dear Friend,

Let me start by saying that you are not alone! As a counselor and youth minister, I have worked with hundreds of young people who feel awful about themselves. I am often shocked because on the outside they seem so happy and so confident. I recently talked with the Homecoming Queen of a local high school. She revealed to me that she has very low self-esteem and that her apparent happiness is “just a mask.” I was shocked! I mean this was the Homecoming Queen at a large high school…how could she not like herself?!?! I bring this up because I don’t want you feel badly about struggling with self-esteem. I think that many generally happy people are walking around wishing they could tell someone how they really feel. You should be proud of yourself for being open enough to share that with someone! That takes courage, which is an incredible gift!

Mask-Making Activity When students see the drama “Masks” on a REAP retreat, they often desire to take down their own masks and “get real”. In order to do so, they must first recognize areas in their life where masks are present. This activity is an opportunity...

As a teenager, my friend Mike was at a very low point in his life – seriously considering harming himself in the most permanent way. In that moment, seemingly out of the blue, a friend reached out to him and asked if he wanted to hang out and do something. Mike said yes to his friend, and – looking back – he believes that phone call saved his life.

Lately, my parents have been finding excuses to try to miss Mass and they call me selfish for wanting to go to Mass when they don’t want to. I’ve asked them to just drop me off, but they won’t. I don’t know what to do. In the Ten Commandments God tell us to keep the Sabbath holy, but he also tells us to honor our father & mother. Am I in a state of sin because I can’t go to Mass because I cannot drive? Am I being selfish?